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My Dear Girl, It’s your birthday, another year around the sun, you made it like you always do. Through all the pain and the heartache of the year before, you’re still here. In this new year of your life, I pray that you’re convinced beyond reasonable doubt that you deserve everything good, you deserve the…

Few weeks ago, the internet was inundated with posts of various captions, by various women and the hash tag was #nobodybelikewoman. While I didn’t partake in the challenge, I like many other persons could not help but read those captions. For me, those captions were little insights into what most of those women were going…

Yesterday was December 25, 2020 , officially Christmas Day and one of the major highlights of my day was attending the Christmas Service at my church just like many other Christians around the world. I’m sure there were all sorts of sermons preached about the true significance of Christmas but I’ll probably not be at…

It was the either the first or second week of January 2020, I’m not sure I remember the day either. My thoughts would occasionally wander and I’d remember Pastor Sam, I think for a split second or two, I wondered if he was still in the land of the living but as quickly as the…

One thing that is noteworthy about me that most folks who are close to me and even those who know me from a distance know about me is that I am very terrible at being neutral. I always pick a side. Am I always right? It’d be foolhardy to say YES, but that’s not the…

I was with this guy yesterday morning when I phoned a female friend of mine who needed my moral support for some stuff she had to take care of. She also happens to be my roommate in school. Now, the above guy out of curiosity asked me if she was just my roomie or my…

We live in times when so much emphasis is placed on net worth. From the songs we listen to, down to the news we hear and read. Sometimes, it feels like people are trying to rub it on others that they are worth more especially in material terms ( If you listen to secular music,…

Not too long ago on this blog, I made a post about a collection of people’s thoughts about me(If you haven’t seen it yet, you should try doing so after reading this post, thank you). It’s nice when people say great things to you about you, the feeling is overwhelming but short-lived, take it from…

So, a couple of times in the past weeks, I’d been uploading posts on my WhatsApp status about asking for help when you need it, and how nobody gets a trophy for doing all the hard stuff alone e.t.c. The funny thing about life is that sometimes, the preacher doesn’t know that the message he…